I'm not that kind of girl

He actually expected me to wait by the phone for him to call!!! Screw that, I have way too much self respect to go through that (again). If he doesn't make plans by Wednesday, then any attempts after that are because he couldn't find anything better to do. Thursday night "what are you doing this weekend" answered "nothing special" is a loud and clear-duh, waiting for you to ask...But apparently, that wasn't clear enough. Then surprise, surprise, an 8:00pm phone call on Friday and "I'm disappointed" when he hears that I already have plans. What was he expecting?? I won't wait around and hope to have something to do. And now I get the drunken messages, "why aren't you here? not the same here without you..." and others that he'll regret tomorrow. Too many girls have accepted their roles as booty calls. It's the perfect solution for the toxic bachelor. No strings attached, no emotion, and then on to the next. He needs to talk to hot gym guy and realize that's not my style. Maybe the two of them can play wingman for each other while I continue to look for a man who actually wants to date and develop a (guys cringe here) relationship.